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PARDON THE PHRASE "BUT DON"T BELIEVE THE HYPE"

3/22/2016

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This is a summary of the last session of the "Technology Transitions Workspace" held on Sunday March 20th 2016.
​THERE ARE TOO MANY COINED PHRASES MISINTERPRETED AS TRUTHS. THE PRACTICAL OR LOGICAL LESSONS DEDUCED FROM THESE SAYINGS SEEM SOUND BUT ARE NOT ALWAYS ACCURATE. SOME WERE DERIVED FROM PRACTICES THAT MADE SENSE FOR THE CIRCUMSTANCES THEY ORIGINATED IN.  OTHERS WERE THE RESULTS OF SUPERSTITIONS AND BELIEFS WE'VE ADAPTED TO VALIDATE OUR PERCEPTION OF REALITY. WE MAY RECREATE PHRASES AND SAYINGS THAT APPLY SPECIFICALLY TO TODAY'S PERCEIVED DILEMMAS.  BUT ULTIMATELY WE MUST IDENTIFY AND REDEFINE THE BOUNDARIES AND BELIEFS THAT RESTRAIN US.
We create our own limits. To consciously or subconsciously believe that we can’t teach old dogs new tricks creates a boundary for both the dog and the master. Such thinking undermines developing the skill which nurtures our ability to discover the unknown.  New tricks require new thinking and developing new abilities. Today’s problems will not be solved with the same level of commitment and thinking from the past. Old dogs like us can learn new tricks but the teacher must be patient and the dog must be willing. Relying on our present conditioning will not prepare us for our newest challenges.
There are so many sayings that we repeat, embrace and believe. Does practice really make perfect?  Are the best things in life free? If we want something done right should we JUST do it ourselves? Why do we cry over spilled milk?  Practice simply makes improvement, if this were not the case, we would achieve perfection through the repetition of effort. The best things in life come with a price. We are not the only ones who can do it right. Crying over spilled milk is like regretting mistakes, isn't it? Doesn't it seem like a natural thing to do? We generally adjust to life’s situations by making changes and applying solutions. The traditional ways we solved problems always seemed to work, why change them now? Spankings and corporal punishment were the order of the day in times past. Are we totally dependent on the same methodologies? Some of the best, more effective and most efficient ways of solving some problems are yet to be discovered. Many of the unsolved problems we face are new to our existence and must be regarded as such. Many of them have been created by us through solving other problems.  We have a tendency to battle unique circumstances from an old perspective of previous experiences. Conventional solutions don’t always work with new problems.  
PROGRESS MAY NOT PRODUCE ADVANCEMENT. SOLUTIONS MAY NOT CREATE NEEDED CHANGE.
Growth generally presents opportunity but commitment and hard work does not guarantee success, it simply defines effort. Defining a problem is simple; drafting a solution requires an understanding of the problem. Significant change is not necessarily produced by just working harder at it. Working smarter or differently may sound good and still not yield a specifically needed outcome. When we do the same things the same way we should not expect different results. That is, by definition, INSANE!
Let’s modify that. Actually, by working harder, but doing things the same way, we can hasten the result. If we're going broke and work harder, but keep doing the same old stuff, we'll go broke faster, that’s all. If we are mediocre and work harder at being mediocre it will make us more mediocre, faster.  And if we are doing well, then doing the same things harder should help us do well, faster, shouldn't it?
Another dynamic comes into play. What if doing well has nothing to do with the area of concern? Maybe working hard was unrelated to the success associated with it. What if just by being in a good place and time things simply worked out?  When our beliefs are derived from conditions incorrectly  correlated to them we can deceive ourselves. The problem is associating yielded results with imagined or unrelated factors. Going outside in the winter without a coat does not cause a cold. But believing it does will affect future behavior. In life, when things start going in the opposite direction, we may think it can be fixed by doubling down on the past efforts of working harder, longer and faster.  Facing the reality of what does not work and discovering that it never did, opens a new spiritual reality of psychological, emotional and financial enlightenment.  When we finally understand the rules of the game after playing it for so long we may feel disheartened.  By studying and applying the newly learned rules we can take new actions and make adjustments we failed to execute previously. This will work in any aspect of life. Whatever has worked up to now has brought us this far; is that why we search for the answers in seminars, sermons, lectures and books?  Seeing things differently, eternally differently, requires honest answers to the following questions. Our new solutions can come from exploring areas of thought previously unknown. 

Are the efforts from the past still working in the present?
Can we discover a better working solution?
Can we execute the newly found solution?
How are we documenting our actions?
Who are we sharing our actions with?
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The answers to all of these questions share the same thread; think it, test it and track it. We're referring to a new way of processing thought. This involves thinking about thinking. The thought process is the first area of scrutiny to test and track. Without nurturing “Intentional desires” they fade, but the energy of “creative desires” can grow through actionable intent. Even the birth of diverse desires can create very similar feelings. Identical feelings may manifest themselves in divergent ways. We should interpret them for what they can become, not for how they feel in the present. Testing is as important as thinking. Simple scrutiny is inadequate.  This cannot be done by the seat-of-the-pants. This is not casual guesswork. We’ve got to run the numbers to know the impact. By tracking the results of our current endeavors we can find out how well things are or aren’t working. The next step is to try and find something better. Try something new on a small scale. We absolutely SHOULD NOT STOP doing our old standby efforts and chuck it all for new-fangled roll-of-the-dice attempts. Test with small samples and take those small initiatives to a portion of life and measure the results. Keep the old standby stuff rolling and keep doing the stuff we've always done at whatever level we do it. This is how we match the better with the good. We give it form by actually measuring it and comparing it. We measure it all! Remember, if we can’t measure it, we can’t manage it. Tracking is essential to answering the questions above and improving our lives. And once we’ve found something that consistently out-performs those old standbys, we retire the old so that the new program becomes the standard. Of course, as soon as that happens we repeat the process to find something even better. Here’s the point. Don’t commit to working harder or more. Commit to working different. Don’t commit to changing something. Commit to changing everything… to "change" itself. Don’t commit to a result, but commit to the process of ever-improving results. Now here’s the clincher. When we kick a bad habit we can declare ourselves winners by replacing it with a new habit. The struggle never ends without any further need for change. Feelings somehow have a way of distorting facts. The feeling of relief may disguise the real and rational facts that come from results. We may be fooled into embracing the superstitions of our conditioning that keep us looking for short cuts and the easy way out. What is in our heads and hearts is just a start. We need visible, actionable and tangible tools, not just our own narrative. Tools make weapons. Two of the most powerful weapons in our arsenal are enrolling others and keeping personal records, both have a life of their own and create accountability. Victory over any bad habit is good but it is only temporal. Life will always send us fresh challenges and the opportunity to win again. Remember the only insane thing is to keep doing things the same old way and expecting different results. When we no longer do what we’ve always done, we can no longer get what we’ve always gotten. And that’s a good thing! Now that we've gotten the point and know the clincher, here's the bottom line. TO GROW IN LIFE WE CANNOT JUST DO BETTER WE HAVE TO BE BETTER!

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John DiDonato
3/25/2016 03:37:26 am

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John DiDonato
3/25/2016 03:46:56 am


I feel that there is no one size fits all. Yes many of us are searching for change and we have to be willing to first make a commitment to ourselves. Well easier said than done. For me it's going to be one step at a time. I'm basically starting all over again. I'm not sure who I want to be held accountable to or if I want to be held accountable to anybody. I'm not saying that I'm ruling it out. I'm at the age where it becomes difficult taking chances especially financially. That has to be at the top of my list because like many, I made some poor choices, pause (I know, woe is me) so it doesn't leave me much leeway because I've got to live within my means until I hit the Lottery "BIG" (I like to think positive). Until then I need to get my finances in order and educate myself enough to make better choices and seek help so that I can accomplish my remaining dreams/goals. As stated in the minutes of this session learning to document and track is something I need to work on. There are no guarantees in life, how can you succeed if you don't try? If you don't try you can't do. I use a lot of coined phrases/sayings. I don't know how accurate they really are but they help me to say what's on my mind. Yes you could say I'm a bit insane, I tend to make the same mistakes repeatedly. I think there are still a few new tricks this old soul can learn. My point of view John DiDonato 03-25-16. P.S. How dare you Joe?

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Annmarie
3/26/2016 05:35:35 pm

It is so true that we feel disheartened after learning that what we've been doing doesn't actually work but thought it did. Making sure we are bundled up when we go out into the cold weather, simply to prevent getting a cold and still ends up with one, can be a feeling of disbelief to someone who believes this superstition. However, understanding that being in close proximity to someone who has the virus in their system is the contributing factor to "catching" a cold is empowering.

Long forming habits are hard to shake since they are part of our behaviors. Changing one's mindset and being patient is easier said than done. However, I think it can and will be done as long as we are determined and committed. I like how you incorporated the idea to "Try something new on a small scale" in order to test new/different results. This is a life long process/commitment. We must continue to evolve.

It definitely helps when we share with others, since no one is an Island and no one succeeds by themselves. It is amazing (it feels good) when we have others who share in our successes especially if they have been there during the trial & error process.

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Major jim
6/26/2016 10:46:51 pm

I think the part John mentioned about money is true for too. I find that only when I make money as I am now for the ARMY is.When there is a big difference about my feeling comfortable.

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