(>) ARE AUDIO/VIDEO RECORDINGS DARK GREEN LETTERING ARE LINKSTHIS WILL BE A L-O-O-N-G POST... THIS IS A COURSE ABOUT INTERCOURSESEX: THE TRIAD - THREE LEGS - THREE LETTERS - THREE DIMENSIONS"SEX" in the sense of coitus, copulation or intercourse has a much higher DESIGN, INTENT and PURPOSE than most of us realize. "SEX" is a particular physical expression of divine LOVE reserved specifically for matrimony. When it is expressed outside of that union, it warps its DESIGN, corrupts its INTENT and violates its PURPOSE. SEX, IS THE INTERACTIVE PERPETUAL "ACT" AND/OR "STATUS" WHICH LIFE'S CREATIVE EXCHANGE IS EXPRESSED THROUGH. IN LIFE, ALL OF EXISTENCE WE KNOW OF IS AUTHORED THROUGH EITHER CREATION (GOD) OR PRO-CREATION (REPRODUCTION-MAN). TRUE CREATION, IS THE MIRACULOUS, UNDENIABLE, YET INEXPLICABLE "FORMATION OF MATTER" THAT HAS NO RIVAL. "SEX" from a Biblical perspective reveals so many interesting distinctions. Its power was first illustrated between Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden specifically during the temptation. Although Eve appears to have been deceived by the serpent, Adam knew exactly what he was doing. What influence or power did Eve have over Adam to convince him not only to go against God's commandment but also to BLAME God for ever forming such a creature. Eve was seduced and Adam denied responsibility! The corruption of "SEX" served as a catalyst for the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah. The exploitation of the act was used by Lot's daughters to conceive. The denial of any SEXUAL relationship was used by Abraham in his attempt to deceive those he feared. Its power was abused and wielded repeatedly. Eventually the act of having SEXUAL intercourse was regulated through the law of Moses. AT ITS CORE EVERY EARTHLY LIFE FORM, CREATURE, ANIMAL, PLANT, ORGANISM AND SPECIES HAS BEEN SPECIFICALLY DESIGNED ACCORDING TO ITS SEXUALITY. THESE PRACTICES COMPOSE THE SPIRITUAL FORMULAS & ESTABLISH "THE FOUNDATIONAL, FORM FOR INTENT AND PURPOSE IN LIFE."  Our "SEXUAL STATUS" sets the definitive standard for the fabric of our existence. This biological, physical and spiritual standard establishes natural gender, order and structure (form). "SEX" is more than an act it is a "state of expression." Unlike many other words, "SEX" is involved with the "context" of most every earthly activity including vocabulary, sentence structure and part of speech. "SEX" expresses an interactive condition for existing and being in harmony with the rest of nature. The resulting balance forms "natural order" and regulates its functions. Any disarray in the act of "SEX" contaminates nature itself and creates disorder. Natural can be defined through three characteristics; they are purpose, order and design. We cannot define "SEX." The best we can do is to describe its place and purpose in the characterization of life. "SEX" is often described by the dichotomy of its applications. It's practice can be impulsive or premeditated. It may present itself as an irresistible impulse, although it is an impulse that can be resisted. Designed as a gender biased act of intimate propagation, the "act of SEX" is both pleasurable and natural. To attach any spiritual significance to "SEX," we must embrace it as an appetite, a calling and a command. "SEX" is more than an act, desire, gender, process or choice. "SEX" is the comingling of spirit with flesh and marriage is the environment that authorizes it. SEXUALITY IS JUST LIKE ANY MUSICAL CHORD WITH COLLECTIVE CHARACTERISTICS. ONE INDIVIDUAL NOTE CANNOT POSSIBLY deLIVER THE RICHNESS OF A FULL CHORD ON ITS OWN. HARMONY IS A PRODUCT OF COMBINING NOTES. IN MUSIC, A CHORD IS COMPOSED OF AT LEAST THREE SOUNDS OR NOTES.LIKEWISE, SEX IS AN IMMERSION OF DIFFERENT ATTRIBUTES. THE ACTUAL WORD "SEX" ENCOMPASSES PHYSIOLOGICAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL, SOCIAL AND SPIRITUAL ORDER. THIS IS NO ENIGMA. "SEX" COMBINES, CONNECTS AND CORRELATES OUR ANATOMY TO and with THE INSTINCTS OF OUR URGES. Let's consider the positive effects of SEXUAL intercourse and why it is good to remain sexually active within a marriage. It's obvious that many of the patriarchs remained sexually active into their old age. The status and value of childbirth, particularly males, was so important that most women back then took the blame for not bearing children personally. Sarah, Hannah, Rebekah, Rachel, the Shunammite and Elizabeth all endured challenges with motherhood. The many benefits of SEXUAL intercourse include stress relief (endorphins), better sleep (prolactin), immune system strengthening, pain relief, menstrual health, mental health, pelvic floor strength, heart health and prostrate health. The practice continued well after menopause as the stories of Abraham's wife, Sarah and Zechariah's wife Elizabeth indicate. Even outside of childbirth, the privilege of participating in SEXUAL intercourse should never be underestimated. IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO EXPLORE SEX OR SEXUALITY WITHOUT specifically INCLUDING GENDER AND HISTORY. THE CONCEPT OF GENDER INITIALLY SEEMS TO BE A SIMPLE DICHOTOMY OF MALE AND FEMALE DIFFERENCES; HOWEVER, THERE ARE CONTRADICTIONS AND PARADOXES WE ALL CAN IDENTIFY WITH. ISN'T IT UNCANNY HOW HUMAN SEXUALITY HAS AN IMPACT ON EACH AND EVERY ASPECT OF LIFE? |
In the Bible, the Song of Solomon, also known as the "Song of Songs or the Canticle of Canticles," is a book of erotic poetry. It is one of five megillot ('scrolls') in the Ketuvim ('writings'), the last section of the Tanakh, the Hebrew Bible. It is attributed to Solomon, who wrote 1,005 songs in his lifetime, but this is considered the ultimate “song of songs.” Unlike the Psalms, it does not have clear markings of its beginning and end. Why such a book is in the Bible is no mystery to those who understand the relationship between Christ and his bride the church. God is so in love with his espoused people that there is no better comparison to it other than a courtship that leads to a wedding followed by a honeymoon. The consummation of this spiritual union can only be compared with the natural act of intercourse between a couple; with a bride who has remained chaste for her husband who is pure. The union and the intimate connection they make is so significant that it makes the human act of coitus sacred. This is why marriage is called HOLY MATRIMONY! Marriage is considered a holy sacrament. It is a public symbol of God's relationship with his beloved. It is also intended by God to be a way to achieve closeness with him. Imagine how God must feel when he sees us abuse the symbol of his love between men and women and even more so when it is corrupted between like sexes. This is why these acts are considered as sin and abominations. "SEX" has spiritual attributes similar to those of an appetite. In spirit, like a hunger, it can be suppressed and controlled but not denied. In spirit, like an undeniable urge it has an impulse; however, it must be acknowledged regulated or resisted. In spirit "SEX" operates as both a desire and a force. "SEX and SEXUALITY" has an impact upon all of life's interactions whether we acknowledge it or not. The invisible breath of life we can characterize as "CELESTIAL SEX" holds the universe together with black holes on one side and gravity on the other. Its formation appears to be a natural cacophony, (a harsh discordant mixture of sounds) but it is actually a spiritual symphony. "SEXUAL INTERCOURSE" on earth reflects the spiritual copulation for universal procreation. SEXUALITY has an impact upon all of life's interactions whether we acknowledge it or not. This invisible breath of life or "CELESTIAL SEX" is holding the universe together with black holes on one side and gravity on the other. It is far more than a natural cacophony or constellation of celestial spheres. In actuality it is more of a spiritual symphony. "SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, SEX and SEXUALITY on earth reflect the spiritual copulation for universal procreation. The force behind this power should be revered and not abused.
whether WE are aware of it, ignorant of it and KNOW IT or not, SEX IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PARAMETER in of all of TODAY'S SOCIETAL STRUCTURE. THE WORD "SEX" ORIGINALLY ONLY APPLIED TO TRAIT OR GENDER. A PERSON'S SEX ORIGINALLY DESCRIBED HAVING THE MAKINGS OR CHARACTERISTICS OF BEING "IDENTIFIED" AS EITHER MALE OR FEMALE.
THIS IS DECIDED AT BIRTH! A BABY HAS NO SAY IN THAT DECISION.
THEREFORE "IDENTIFICATION" MUST BE DISTINGUISHED APART AND SEPARATE FROM "AFFILIATION!" AN "IDENTITY" IS THE "FACT" OF BEING WHO OR WHAT A PERSON OR THING IS! IT IS SPECIFIC.
KNOWING THAT THE "IDENTITY" OF OUR GENDER ASSIGNED AT BIRTH WAS NOT UNDER OUR CONTROL IS ONE THING; BUT CHANGING "THE WAY" WE DESIRE OTHERS TO "IDENTIFY" US, IS ANOTHER!
GENDER SHOULD NOT BE CALLED AN "IDENTITY" IT IS A TRAIT. CONSIDER ALL OF THE LETTERS AND SYMBOLS THAT THE LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY NOW HAS TO USE TO BE INCLUSIVE. LABELS ARE WHAT WE USE TO DEFINE, DESCRIBE, EDUCATE, INCLUDE AND INFORM THROUGH. EVERY SPECIES OF MAMMAL HAS A GENDER THAT IS PERMANENT AND NON-TRANSFERABLE. BEHAVIORS AND FEELINGS ARE NOT GENDER THEY ARE ATTRIBUTES WE DEVELOPE.
MOST EVERYTHING IN EXISTENCE CAN BE "IDENTIFIED" BY MORE THAN ONE ATTRIBUTE, QUALITY OR TRAIT. IT IS THE COMBINATION OF VARIOUS QUALITIES THAT SHAPE OUR UNIQUE INDIVIDUALITY. EVEN A ROCK CAN BE "IDENTIFIED" BY ITS HARDNESS, SHAPE, SIZE OR COLOR, BUT ROCKS DON'T GET TO CHOOSE HOW WE "AFFILIATE" THEM IN LINE WITH THE MULTIPLE WAYS WE "IDENTIFY" THEM.
TODAY SOME OF US ABUSE OUR PERSONAL FREEDOM AND LIBERTY BY "IDENTIFYING" OURSELVES INDIVIDUALY THROUGH ANY MEANS WE CHOOSE! HOWEVER, WE ELECT TO ASSOCIATE WITH OTHERS, WHETHER THROUGH NATIONALITY, RACE, RELIGION, CULTURE, GENDER OR ANY OTHER ATTRIBUTE IS OUR OWN BUSINESS! tHERE IS ONE CAVEAT. WE MUST BE OR HAVE THE ATTRIBUTES WE DEFINE OURSELVES THROUGH OR "IDENTIFY" WITH.
WITHOUT PARTING HAIRS OR MAKING ABSURD ANALOGIES; REGARDLESS OF "AFFILIATION" OR "IDENTITY," IT'S OBVIOUS THAT THE NATURAL PREREQUISITES OF HUMAN REPRODUCTIVE ORDER REQUIRES THE COMMINGLING OF OPPOSITE GENDERS/"SEXES." THESE DIVERGENT ACTORS PLAY THE MAIN ROLE IN OUR PERPETUAL EXISTENCE. THE DESIRE OR URGE TO REPRODUCE IS INNATE AND INSTINCTIVELY BUILT INTO ALL OF NATURE. IT IS UNFORTUNATE THAT THE NEW MEANINGS OF SEX, THIS BEAUTIFUL EXPRESSION OF CREATIVE INTIMACY, HAS BEEN BUTCHERED IN DEFINITION AND ABUSED IN CUSTOM BY PEOPLE PRACTICING IT WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING.
FOR US TO BE THE SEX THAT WE "ARE" (TRAIT) HAS NO PREREQUISITES. THIS IS NOT A DECISION WE MAKE. "GENDER" IS NOT A CHOICE, "AFFILIATION" IS. WE BECOME MORE SEXUALLY SIGNIFICANT IN THE WORLD AS WE GROW IN OUR PHYSICAL, INTELLECTUAL, MORAL AND EMOTIONAL MATURITY.
THE WAY WE EXPRESS AND "PRACTICE" OUR SEXUALITY IS MORE OF A PERSONAL CHOICE. THE ROLE "SEX" PLAYS AS A "FORCE" OF NATURE HAS FAR MORE POWER THAN ITS USE AS AN INDIVIDUAL "DEED."
We cannot begin to give or have answers to all of the "what about this or that's." Gender is usually assigned at birth based on an inspection of a baby's external genitalia by a relative, midwife, nurse, or physician. In 99.95 percent of births there is very little ambiguity in the minds of these "assigners" as to the "perceived" gender. In the remaining cases about 1 in 2000, there are usually additional diagnostic steps required before a sex assignment can be made. "Geneticists have discovered that all human embryos start life as females, as do all embryos of mammals. About the 2nd month the fetal tests elaborate enough androgens to offset the maternal estrogens and maleness develops." "Ambiguous genitalia is a rare condition in which an infant's external genitals don't appear to be clearly either male or female. In a baby with ambiguous genitalia, the genitals may be incompletely developed or the baby may have characteristics of both sexes." There are deviations, exceptions and mutations that do occur in humans. Ever so often doctors, especially those in the neonatal gynecologic field, will see anomalies that neither they or we can explain. There are some situations where medical practitioners make decisions shortly after birth that have life long ramifications. As in every other field of medicine there are what's known as DSD's namely disorders of sexual development that occur. Hermaphroditism, also referred to as intersex, is one of the condition in which there is a discrepancy between the external and internal sexual and genital organs. Our intention is NOT to get sidetracked with these exceptions. Yes, they exist and we must view such cases as exceptions. We should NOT use them as a license to sin. One thing is for sure, that in most cases gender issues do NOT alter our sex drive!
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at this point IT should become OBVIOUS TO US THAT OUR SEX DRIVE ENGAGES WITH OUR NATURAL DESIRES, OUR PRIMAL INSTINCTS AND OUR PHYSICAL URGES. HOWEVER, UNLIKE ANIMALS WE ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO FULFILL THE COMPULSUION, CRAVING OR INCLINATION OF EVERY ONE OF OUR URGES, WANTS OR DESIRES. WE DON'T ALWAYS PAY ATTENTION TO THE "INTUITIVE" NATURE OF OUR "FEELINGS." if such were the case we all would acknowledge both psychic and spritual energy. still WE ARE OBLIGED TO EITHER ACCEPT AND ACT, CONTROL and regulate or suppress and subdue our own personal COMPULSIONS, IMPULSES AND URGES.
AS HUMAN BEINGS WE OFTEN DEVELOP ATTRACTIONS AND AFFECTIONS TOWARDS THINGS WE'RE EXPOSED TO BY HEARING, SEEING AND EXPERIENCES. THIS IS WHY IT IS WRONG TO EXPOSE A CHILD TO ADULT SITUATIONS. MATURITY IS AN EMOTIONAL, INTELLECTUAL, PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL PROCESS.
AS FREE MORAL AGENTS WE HAVE FREEDOM OF CHOICE. WE CAN MAKE AN INDIVIDUAL INFORMED DECISION TO WILLINGLY ASSOCIATE OUR GENDER WITH THE SPECIFIC SEXUAL ROLE THAT NATURE PROVIDED FOR IT SPECIFICALLY, IF WE CHOOSE TO! BY SIMPLY DECIDING TO FULFILL OUR REPRODUCTIVE ROLE, WE PURPOSELY ALIGN OURSELVES WITH NATURE'S GOAL. WE GIVE OUR CHOICE A VOICE BY OUR PRACTICES. THIS CANNOT BE FORCED UPON US. AS A SPECIES IT IS BOTH OUR COMPULSION AND OUR DUTY TO MULTIPLY. HOWEVER, WE AS "FREE MORAL AGENTS," ARE NOT BOUND BY THE NECESSITY OR URGE TO PROCREATE.
WE EACH HAVE THE INDIVIDUAL FREEDOM, LIBERTY, OPTION AND RIGHT TO ACTIVELY EXPRESS OUR "SEXUALITY" SELFISHLY FOR OUR OWN PERSONAL PLEASURE & PURPOSE, PROMISCUOUSLY OR OTHERWISE. THERE ARE NO EXEMPTIONS FOR SEXUAL MISCONDUCT IN ETHICAL, LEGAL OR MORAL CODES. ADULTERY IS ADULTERY! FORNICATION IS FORNICATION! HOMOSEXUALITY IS HOMOSEXUALITY! INCEST IS INCEST! INFIDELITY IS INFIDELITY! MOLESTATION IS MOLESTATION! THE WAY WE EXPRESS AND PRACTICE OUR SEXUALITY AND THE METHODS WE USE ARE A PERSONAL CHOICE. HOWEVER, WITHIN "THE KINGDOM" THERE ARE SOME RESTRICTIONS. DON'T GET IT TWISTED POINTING FINGERS AT OTHERS. ABIDING IN "THE KINGDOM" IS ALSO A PERSONAL CHOICE AND PRACTICE.
FOR SOME OF US THE NATURAL CHOICE IS TO FULFILL THE NOBEL AND TRADITIONAL PURPOSE OF MATING BY CHOOSING A MONOGAMOUS SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP CONSUMMATED BETWEEN TWO UNIQUE GENDERS WITHIN A COMMITTED ALLIANCE. FOR OTHERS THIS IS NOT THE CASE! WE CAN EASILY DENY OR SATISFY OUR INDIVIDUAL URGES IN MULTIPLE WAYS. THERE ARE NO EXCEPTIONS REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION. WE CAN BE IN COMPLIANCE OR LIVE OUR LIVES IN DEFIANCE! THE DECISION IS OURS! WHETHER WE CONSIDER OURSELVES TO BE ASEXUAL, BISEXUAL, HETEROSEXUAL OR HOMOSEXUAL THE CONSEQUENCES, EFFECTS AND RAMIFICATIONS ARE OUR PERSONAL OPTION. THE SAME RULE HOLDS TRUE FOR EVERY SEXUAL BEHAVIOR. THE GENETIC CONSTRUCTION OF CIVILIZATION REQUIRES BOTH FAMILY AND GENDER DIVERSITY WITHIN ALL SPECIES.
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*FROM BIRTH* GENDER IS FIRST!
IN OUR MODERN SOCIETY, EVERYTHING FROM MEDICATION TO FASHION HAS TIES TO SOME ASPECT OF GENDER AFFILIATION. MALES AND FEMALES ARE A LOT ALIKE BUT NO WHERE NEAR THE SAME. GENDER IS ONE OF THE MAIN CHARACTERISTICS INHERIT IN DEVELOPMENT AND DESIGN. IF WE LOOK HARD ENOUGH, WE WILL DISCOVER THE BIAS THAT GENDER PLAYS IN ALL OF OUR INVENTIONS. ALMOST EVERYTHING FROM AIRCRAFT, APPLIANCES, AUTOMOBILES, ELECTRONICS, FURNITURE, HOMES AND BRIDGES PORTRAY SOME ASPECT OF SEX (THE TRAIT). A CAREFUL EXAMINATION OF AESTHETICS, WHICH ARE BUILT INTO EVERY DESIGN, OFTEN GIVES US SOME IDEA OF THE DESIGNERS GENDER OR AFFILIATION.
WHEN A CHILD IS BORN; THE FIRST QUESTION ASKED AFTER DELIVERY IS, WAS IT A BOY OR GIRL? WHAT MAKES THIS QUESTION SO IMPORTANT? WHY DOES GENDER MATTER SO MUCH? WE KNOW THAT BOYS AND GIRLS DO NOT ACT, DEVELOP OR MATURE IN THE SAME WAY OR AT THE SAME RATE. GENDER IS NOT DETERMINED SOLELY BY APPEARANCE. WHEN IT COMES TO GENDER THERE ARE DISTINCT BIOLOGICAL DIFFERENCES OTHER THAN GENITALIA. HORMONES, MUSCLES, SKIN AND BONE DENSITY DIFFER BETWEEN GENDERS. IN HUMANS TEETH ARE SEXUALLY DIMORPHIC. EVEN THE AMOUNT OF HEMOGLOBIN IN THE BLOOD OF MALES AND FEMALES DIFFER. THE DISTINCTION IN APPEARANCES BETWEEN SEXES CAN RANGE FROM THE VERY OBVIOUS TO THE VERY SUBTLE.
OUR "EXPRESSED" SEXUALITY, "CHOSEN" SEXUAL "AFFILIATION AND IDENTITY" DRAMATICALLY INFLUENCES OUR PERCEPTION OF LIFE'S REALITY. LIKE ELECTRICITY, SEXUALITY IS THE UNSEEN FORCE POWERING SO MANY OF OUR DAILY INTERACTIONS. HOW OFTEN WE FAIL TO ACKNOWLEDGE SEX'S POWER, PURPOSE OR PRESENCE AND TAKE IT FOR GRANTED. SEX IS TO RELATIONSHIPS THE SAME AS GENDER IS TO THE NAME GIVEN TO A NEWBORN! GENDER INFLUENCES EVERY ASPECT OF OUR EXISTENCE FROM COLOR TO CONTENT, DECISION TO DESIGN AND FABRIC TO FEEL. WE SHOULD ALWAYS CONSIDER SEXUALITY AS AN ESSENTIAL COMPONENT FOR EVALUATING LIFE, ESPECIALLY FROM A SPIRITUAL PERSPECTIVE. WHEN WE ADOPT AND PRACTICE SEEING LIFE FROM A SPIRITUAL PERSPECTIVE, IT DOES NOT ENABLE US TO SEE EVERYTHING; BUT WHATEVER WE DO SEE, WE WILL SEE MORE CLEARLY.
SEEING SEX SPIRITUALLY INSTEAD OF SENSUALLY
"HAVING" OR PERFORMING SEX, THE ACT OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, IS Also a COLLABORATIVE CONSUMMATION. WHEN COUPLES JOIN AND CONNECT TO INTERACT PHYSICALLY AND INTIMATELY, THEY ARE ACTIVATING AND ENGAGING WITH MULTIPLE CHEMICAL, EMOTIONAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL AND SPIRITUAL ENERGIES.
WE MUST RECOGNIZE THAT IT IS THE "NATURE," OF OUR DESIRES AND THE INTENTIONS BEHIND THEM THAT GIVES THEM A SEXUAL CONNOTATION. THERE ARE A BROAD RANGE OF THINGS AFFECTED BY "SEX" (IN ITS FULL MEANING) THAT GOES FAR BEYOND ITS PERCEIVED ACT OR APPEARANCE. SEX IS A "PROCREATIVE FORCE" THAT PROVIDES THE POWER TO EVENTUALLY MANIFEST THE FORMATION OF ANOTHER LIFE. THE PURPOSE AND PROCESS OF INTERCOURSE IS A "SACRED ENERGIZED EXCHANGE." THIS MAGICAL FORMULA ESTABLISHED SINCE TIME BEGAN REMAINS THE SAME AND HAS NOT BEEN IMPROVED ON OR ALTERED SINCE. IS THERE ANY OTHER ACT OR SKILL SO EMBEDDED, INTUITIVE OR NATURALLY LEARNED AMONG HUMANITY?
YES, PROCREATION IS INSTINCTIVE. IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE LEARNED OR TAUGHT. YEARNINGS, URGES, CRAVINGS, COMPULSIONS AND DESIRES ARE NATURES TOOLS FOR SUSTAINING ITSELF. HOWEVER, NATURE HAS ORDER, AND GENDER IS ONE OF THE FACTORS THAT ESTABLISHES IT. IS THE SEX EDUCATION WE TEACH ABOUT THE TRAIT, THE ACTIVITIES, THE END RESULTS, THE DESIRE, THE PURPOSE OR THE DRIVE? "SEXUAL EXPRESSIONS" CANNOT BE EASILY LABELED, PACKAGED, REGULATED OR ADDRESSED BY A SINGULAR DEFINITION. SEX SUPPLIES THE ENERGY THAT LIFE OPERATES THROUGH. SEX IS LIKE THE AIR WE ALL SHARE. HUMANS ARE SEXUAL BEINGS! SEX IS A "BUILT IN" PART OF OUR LIVES THAT EACH OF US MUST MANAGE WITHIN OUR OWN INDIVIDUAL LIFESTYLE. OUR SEXUALITY REMAINS MOSTLY A PRIVATE MATTER UNTIL WE EXCHANGE SEXUAL ENERGY WITH OTHERS. WHEN, HOW AND WITH WHOM SEXUALITY IS EXPRESSED TOWARDS AND EXCHANGED WITH MATTERS. AS WE GROW AND MATURE WE USUALLY TEND TO ALSO ATTACH OURSELVES TO THE ENERGIES AND FORCES SURROUNDING US.
WE SHOULD ALL RECOGNIZE THAT ASSOCIATION BREEDS ASSIMILATION AT AN EMOTIONAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL AND SPIRITUAL LEVEL. SEXUAL ENERGIES AND FORCES PLAY A BIG PART IN PUBERTY, ADOLESCENCE AND ADULTHOOD. THERE IS A TIME IN CHILDREN WHEN THE PROCESS STARTS AND GRADUALLY PROGRESSES UNTIL THEY MATURE TO A POINT WHERE THEY CONSCIOUSLY BEGIN LEARNING HOW TO ENGAGE THEIR MINDS AND THINKING PROCESSES. AS PARENTS IT IS OUR JOB TO TEACH OUR CHILDREN HOW TO EMOTIONALLY, INTELLECTUALLY, PHYSICALLY AND SPIRITUALLY PARTICIPATE IN AN ACT THAT INVOLVES PHYSICAL COUPLING AND INVASIVE PENETRATION. THIS MAY BE WHY THE ACT IS CONSIDERED SEXUAL INTERCOURSE! CONSCIOUSLY AND WILLINGLY PARTICIPATING IN THIS ACT MARKS A STAGE AND AN AGE OF RESPONSIBILITY. AGE AND MATURITY SET THE STANDARD FOR ENGAGING IN SEXUAL ACTIVITIES.
CAN WE ALLOW MODERN SCIENCE, ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLES OR SOCIAL EXPERIMENTS TO CHANGE, COMPETE WITH, OR COMPROMISE GENERATIONS OF ESTABLISHED STANDARDS? DOES THE ACCEPTABILITY OF ABORTIONS, PRE-MARITAL SEX, BIRTH CONTROL AND GENETIC ENGINEERING CHANGE THE STANDARDS AND TRADITIONS INSTITUTED AND ESTABLISHED IN YEARS PAST? WHEN WE ALTER THE PROCESS DO WE NOT ALSO ELIMINATE, MANIPULATE OR ALTER THE PURPOSE AND RESULTS AS WELL? BEFORE FORMING AN OPINION, CONSIDER THIS: ONLY HUMANS CAN ACTUALLY "HAVE" SEX.
"DOING" DIFFERS FROM "BEING" AS "PARTICIPATING" DIFFERS FROM "POSSESSING." IN NATURE ALL known SPECIES DIVIDE, FORM OR MATE. THE WORD "SEX," HAS NO SIGNIFICANCE OUTSIDE OF HUMANITY. SEX AMONG ANIMALS GENERALLY REFERS STRICTLY TO COPULATION AND MATING. ANIMALS SO CALLED "SEXUAL BEHAVIOR" IS NOT ALWAYS RELATIVE TO GENDER. THERE IS A LOT OF MISINFORMATION ABOUT WHAT SEX IS. "TRANSGENDER" IS A TERM COINED IN THE MID SIXTY'S BY A PSYCHIATRIST NAMED JOHN F. OLIVEN OF COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY. THIS TERMINOLOGY WAS CONSIDERED TO BE A MORE ACCURATE DEFINITION FOR DESCRIBING MANY ALTERNATE SEXUAL BEHAVIORS. IN REALITY GENDER IS NON-TRANSFERABLE. WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO BROWSE THE INTERNET WITHOUT A SEXUALLY ORIENTED ADVERTISEMENT?
SEX NEEDS TO BE PRESENTED AS MORE THAN JUST A PRACTICED PLEASURABLE SENSUAL SENSATION TO PARTICIPATE IN. THE ACT OF SEX WHEN LEGITIMATELY EXCHANGED BOOSTS THE IMMUNE SYSTEM, PLEASES THE BODY, STIMULATES THE MIND AND SATISFIES THE SOUL. SEX IS NOT A DIRTY OR ODIOUS ACT. ALL LIVING THINGS PROCREATE AND ARE "DRIVEN" TO REPRODUCE IN A WAY THAT OPERATES BEYOND THEIR CONSCIOUS CONSENT. SEXUALITY IN AND AMONG HUMAN BEINGS IS A VOLUNTARY ACT AND COMPELLING FORCE THAT OPERATES AT AN AUTONOMOUS LEVEL. THE WORD "SEX" WITH ITS THREE LETTERS SHOULD BE EMBRACED FROM AT LEAST THREE DIMENSIONS. SEX (1) THE ACT OF INTERCOURSE, WHICH IS DIFFERENT FROM SEX, (2) THE ATTRIBUTE, AND/OR TRAIT. FINALLY THERE'S (3) SEX THE SIGNIFICANCE OR (PURPOSE) IT PLAYS IN UNIVERSAL SPIRITUAL ORDER THAT IS DISTINCT FROM THE ACT OR THE TRAIT. WE TEND TO LOOK AT SEX MOSTLY AS THE "GENDER" AND THE "ACT" WITHOUT GIVING THE PROPER ATTENTION TO ITS PURPOSE AND POWER.
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CORRECT CLASSIFICATIONS ENHANCE EDUCATION!
SEX DESCRIBES AN ACT, A STATE AND AN ENERGY OF EXPRESSION.
SEX MUST BE CHARACTERIZED AS BOTH A NOUN AND A VERB IN EVERY ASPECT.
SEX IS NOT SECRETIVE OR MYSTERIOUS ITS OBVIOUS! JUST LOOK ALL AROUND US.
NOUNS ARE WORDS USED TO IDENTIFY... ANY CLASS OF PEOPLE, PARTICULAR LOCATION OR PECULIAR THINGS. PERSONS, PLACES AND THINGS ARE ALL AROUND US AND SO IS THE "NOUN," SEX!
VERBS ARE DESCRIPTIVE WORDS THAT GIVE FORM TO THE ACTIONS AND INVOLVEMENTS OF NOUNS. VERBS BY DESIGN GIVE A SPECIFIC MEANING TO A NOUN'S UNIQUE PERFORMANCE. ONLY HUMANS PERFORM THE VERB "SEX," ALL OTHER PROCREATION INVOLVES "FORMING OR MATING."
WORDS ARE SPIRIT. wORDS NOT ONLY VISUALLY DESCRIBE BUT ALSO VERBALLY REPRESENT AN ACT OR EVENT. WORDS GIVE THOUGHTS FORM. IN THE SPIRITUAL REALM "WORDS," ALONG WITH LANGUAGE, PICTURES AND IMAGES CONTAIN THE VERBAL, VISUAL AND VIRTUAL REPRESENTATION OF NOUNS. THE "VERBIage" OF THE SPIRITUAL KINGDOM exist as MORE THAN GRAPHICAL REPRESENTATIONS OF COMMUNICATION; THESE ARE THE WORDS OF SPIRIT!
SEX NOT ONLY DESCRIBES AND DEPICTS GENDER, SEX ALSO DELINEATES THE SCOPE AND THE TYPE OF INTERACTIONS AMONG AND BETWEEN GENDERS. SEX CAN BE CHARACTERIZED BY ITS Benefits, byproducts and popularity. SEX TOUCHES OUR EMOTIONAL, PHYSICAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL AND SPIRITUAL REALITIES! SEX IS THE RATIFICATION PROCESS WE ENGAGE IN THAT SANCTIONS THE PURPOSE for LIFE'S EXCHANGE of energy.
THE SECRET SAUCE OF SEXUAL INTERCOUSE IN HUMANS IS INTIMACY
Sex in its modern definition has multiple characteristics. Aside from the main factor that allows us to distinguish the difference within a species, sex is also considered to be an act promoted by an innate force of attraction. Today we label and call this allure a "sex drive." As natural as it is, the evidence of an active sex drive fundamentally manifests itself visibly or invisibly through sight, smell or other senses. Sexual arousal stimulates both our intellectual and sensory faculties. The act is actually called intercourse. Like underage drinking, Sexual intercourse requires a certain level of maturity to indulge in for moral, ethical and safely reasons. Unfortunately, today's acceptance of promiscuity has saturated the consciousness of people of all ages, cultures and religions. This is why there is a taboo associated with simply discussing Sexual activity. Sex is both an act and an occurrence with a force that has its own impetus. As a noun and a verb, it is not only something we are, but it is also something we do. Sex is actually a natural expression of our innate social energy. Whether enslaved, imprisoned or impoverished the sex drive continues to function regardless of the physical, mental or spiritual environment. Many people like to define sex by its gender, its activity or by its physical characteristics. Neither the act of intercourse nor the identity of gender completely defines sex. Without its secret sauce, the ingredients that binds the urge to the act, sex is just a connection that results in physical pleasure and/or biological reproduction. When the act of sex is not a shared intimate and sacred act it is reduced to a mating ritual that animals instinctively engage in. When sex among human beings does not engage sharing our emotional, intellectual and sensory faculties we can categorize it as desire, lust, masturbation, screwing and artificial insemination. The "act" of coitus can be simulated, the "results" can be mimicked, but its "essence" can never be duplicated. The secret sauce that Sexual intercourse creates between two committed human beings aligns and harmonizes individual vibrations and energies into one. Sexual intercourse can merge the law of attraction with the law of love and bind them in ways that last for a lifetime. This is what the institution of marriage is all about.
SEXUAL INTERCOURSE IS FUNDAMENTALLY AN ANTICIPATED, BINDING, DESIRABLE, EXPECTED, FULFILLING, NATURAL, AND MUTUALLY PLEASURABLE CREATIVE ACT. SEXUAL INTERCOURSE ENGAGES, CONNECTS AND COMBINES THE SUBSTANCE OF TWO SEPARATE SOULS INTO ONE.
WHENEVER TWO INDIVIDUALS SEXUALLY SHARE THEIR BODIES THROUGH INTIMATE PHYSICAL CONTACT AND ASSOCIATED EMOTIONAL COMMITMENTS THERE ARE SPIRITUAL VULNERABILITIES.
SEXUAL INTERCOURSE IS BOTH AN ACT AND A SPIRITUAL FORCE. THE "ACT" OR "THOUGHT" OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE CREATES THE SAME TYPE OF BIOLOGICAL ENERGY FORMED WHEN A MARRIAGE IS CONSUMMATED. SEXUAL INTERCOURSE ALSO ACTIVATES AND RELEASES THE HORMONAL FLOWS OF BOTH PARTICIPANTS SIMULTANEOUSLY.
SEX'S CREATIVE FORCES OPERATE BEST IN ENVIRONMENTS WHERE MUTUALLY SHARED EMOTIONS AND SENSUAL VIBRATIONS ARE EXCHANGED. THE "SEX DRIVE" IS AS STRONG OR STRONGER THAN OUR DESIRES TO COUGH, CRY, EAT, DRINK, SCRATCH, SNEEZE, SWALLOW, TASTE OR TOUCH. SEX IS NOT ALWAYS SO SEXY. SEX IS A SMORGASBORD OF EXPRESSIONS FROM SILKY, SLIMY, SLIPPERY, SWEATY, SOGGY, SULTRY, SWEET, TART AND TASTY. IN THIS MODERN TIME THE WORD "SEX" HAS SEEMINGLY EVOLVED TO MEAN A BIOLOGICAL FORM THAT WE CAN INDIVIDUALLY CHOOSE AND SOCIALLY INTERMINGLE THROUGH WITHOUT REGARDING ITS NATURAL OR SPIRITUAL PURPOSE. THIS IS A DEFINITION THAT MIRRORS THE WAY SOCIETY DEALS WITH GLOBAL WARMING AND OUR ENVIRONMENT. ANY DEFINITION THAT CHANGES WITH OUR WHIMS IS NOT A DEFINITION AT ALL. THIS IMPLIES THAT ALL THE OTHER WORDS OR PHRASES DERIVED FROM IT CARRY THE SAME STIGMA. FOR EXAMPLE, THE TERM "SEXINESS" CAN BE GIVEN SUCH A BROAD RANGE OF MEANINGS, THAT LIKE BEAUTY, IT IS STRICTLY IN THE (EYES) PERCEPTION OF THE BEHOLDER.
It's unfortunate that Sexual intercourse has been cheapened and corrupted by how it is depicted and dishonored today. The proliferation of promiscuity, sexual themes and pornography is ruining the idea and image of what intimacy is all about. Once an idea has been implanted within the consciousness of young impressionable minds it can grow and develop into fake and unrealistic fantasies that cannot fulfill expectations. Sexual intercourse and the intimate acts that accompany it should get better and better with age. Foreplay, which may include petting, speaking and touching alone can stimulate our libidos. Why do so many working people and seniors allow their sex lives to become dormmate? Is it our beliefs, our busy lifestyles, our priorities, our diets, our environments, our health, our interests, our medications or our culture and customs? Abraham was still sexually active with Sarah long after menopause. That's probably why she laughed and scoffed at the idea that she could ever get pregnant! Do the alarming rates of prostate and uterine cancer correlate with societies attitude towards sex? Why is it that many couples spend more time petting and stroking their pets than they do one another?
SEX IS SO POWERFUL THAT IT CAN "MAKE LOVE"
Once we get people to see sex from an other than sensual or biological perspective we can begin to appreciate its full range of expressions. "Sex" is so significant in the universe that it may be best described by its byproducts. One of the byproducts of sex is love! Consider copulation mathematically. One sexual act of love, performed by two different genders of the same species resulting in a third miraculous outcome. We can demonstrate and produce love through our sexual behaviors. Among other effects, the results manifest as pleasure, partnership and/or procreation. Creating is an act of love. "Making love" is easy when sex is added to the recipe. Sex and "making love," as it's often called, is much more than an act, it engages power like electricity. Although electricity has always existed, it is still being engineered and newly applied. When we first discovered electricity we barely knew how to use it. Today, electrical use is worldwide and is still being exploited in more and more ways. Likewise sex is no stranger to humanity and although we've always engaged in it, we're still discovering many of its hidden gems, special attributes and unknown benefits. When we socialize, our sexual identity is generally established by how we're engaging in any meaningful act or conversation. Sex is a part of our identity and gender is how it is biased. The "gender" we're born into determines our sexual predisposition in as much as it establishes our reproductive purpose. Procreation "DRIVES" every species survival. The act of mating and sexual intercourse share similar characteristics but they are not the same. Reproduction can occur through asexual or sexual acts. Single cell organisms divide, plants pollinate, insects breed, animals mate but only humans "have" SEX. "Sexual expressions" can span from simple "innocent acts" to complicated "intimate actions." Whether we are playing with dolls as children or playing house as adults, sex is expressed in our behaviors. Sexuality is an expression of our nature. We are naturally inclined to identify with our biological predisposition! If something alters or corrupts that, we will find ourselves "unnaturally mismatched." This confuses the "spirit of our actions with the purpose of our actions." When our motivations align with their natural purpose they compliment one another. When our urges are not aligned with their natural biological purpose conflict and confusion will emerge. Every feeling, including pain, pleasure, itches and urges have a purpose. We can easily re-purpose and substitute acts and/or urges towards things they were never intended for. We can fulfill our personal aims and desires through alternate means. We can use a brick to bang in a nail, but nothing beats a hammer. Gender is non-refundable and non-transferable. Our Desires always affect our emotions, alter our environment and nurture feelings whether they are valid or not. There are only two sexes, male and female, these are our only two modes of sexual expression. Our sexual energies are expressed in either a masculine or feminine way. Gender and passions have both feminine and masculine roles. Masculinity and femininity are recognized sex traits that exist on a spectrum. While most men are masculine, there are some that have feminine tendencies and some that are ultra-masculine. Similarly, most women are considered feminine, but some exhibit masculine tendencies while some are ultra-feminine. This highly subjective terminology has unique differences across cultures. When we participate in any type of "activity" we engage in it "through" our sexuality and expose that level of our consciousness to anyone we've aligned with. Intimacy incorporates some level of sexuality but is not defined or limited by it. As we interact with one another attraction is inevitable. Although all attractions are not sexual, many are! Sometimes just a slight increase in our blink rate will indicate some level of sexual arousal or attraction. Sex is a shared expression of actions and energy that births and governs life. Our job is to delegate, limit and direct it. Remember, we constantly share our sexuality with others but not necessarily the intimacy of it through the act of intercourse. There is no greater emotional expression that encompasses sharing our mental and physical privacy with someone else, than sexual intercourse! Sex embodies the qualities expressed in our appearance, appetites, attraction, commerce, favor, friendships, governance, passions, pleasures, policies and power. Sex is the "trait" that distinguishes the major difference in every kind of species. When we embrace our unique differences, the true scope and meaning of what sex is, what sex does and how sex works is illuminated.
WE'RE ALL PLAYERS EVERYONE PARTICIPATES IN THE GAME
Our sex drive sounds exactly like it is! Remember, we are meant to drive it, not for it to drive us. Sex is a "driving force." When we take the "drive" its a round trip. Our sex drive is tied directly to our social needs and the two are inextricably inter tangled. Navigating our way through life without considering the role sex plays in it is shortsighted. Sex engages physical, psychic, social, and spiritual energy. Our social to sexual transition is a lifelong process. Remarkably, many of the skills are learned through on-the-job training. The core "nature of sex" allows it to be learned and practiced easily. Sexual attractions are usually particular and somewhat specific. The social significance of being acknowledged and accepted is presently and will continue to be exploited by technologies. A.I. is replacing television program as babysitters and confidants. Once we began conversing with Siri, Cortana and Google the mold was set. Dating apps are morphing into companion apps without the necessity of human-to-human interaction. The "energy of sex" functions invisibly as well as intelligently. Sex is an appetite, desire, force, urge, and an instinct whose POWERS we can selfishly or constructively wield. Sex can be used and/or EXPLOITED in almost any venue. Technology now allows sexual companions, favors and enticements to continually be adopted by people without the energy and effects of gender. We must become aware of how animation and virtual "acts" and "apps" play in the big picture. Today's technologies can bring brothels into our bedrooms, romantic partnerships with programs on our smartphone and relationships that mimic reality although they are not real. Sex is so powerful that even its imagery can affect us. The substance of sex can be expressed in multiple ways. Sex (the full meanings) can be spoken verbally, felt physically, sensed emotionally and portrayed or projected visually. Those of us who understand imaging: realize that an image, the virtual representation of a subject or substance, can never truly be a substitute for the thing it represents. On the other hand, by representing sexuality in so many ways it tends to obscure the main significance of sex. In the animal kingdom many creatures use their physical senses emphatically and in a completely different order from what we practice in the HUMAN arena. Most creatures like fish and animals initially rely on signals, smells and sounds to attract mates. HUMANS can be smitten and lean towards other "senses" like appearance, "instincts" or feelings. Unlike people, most animals do not select mates based primarily on looks (appearance). Peacock's pay attention to pretty feathers, fish flirt with their pelvic fins and alligators flirt through the vibrations of "Faraday Waves." As HUMANS, most of us filter our desires by relying primarily upon our auditory and visual faculties for guidance. Its been said that women fall in love with their ears, while men fall in love with their eyes. Our eyes "the light of the body," predisposes us to regarding visual images first. "And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat. (Genesis 3:6) The lust of the eyes and the flesh can adversely affect our sex drive in such a way that we "only" pay attention to sensual stimuli. Maybe this is why "Job" made a deal with his eyes not to look to lust after women. Maybe that's why Jesus said that if our eye offends the rest of the body to pluck it out. The significance that sex (the full meaning) plays in life should not be overlooked or underestimated. Life is a balance of multiple sexually oriented partnerships. The complementary yet differing roles played by these artist and authors of relationships require a cooperative coupling of concepts and ideas. Diversity is generally the most important dynamic in perpetuity. Two of the same type of ingredients can only add more of the same. Variety is created through variations in the method or source of formation. Even couples in "same sex" relationships play differing roles. Whether its physical, biological or emotional differences mixing diversity fills the recipe humanity calls for.
DIVERSITY PROVIDES VARIETY AND ADDS LEVELS OF IMMUNITY
There is much more to why we merge and mix our multiple habits hormones, energies and vibrations. With humans, sex is much more than just a reproductive activity. We each possess attributes that repel, appeal, drive, and attract us to one another. There is no rhyme or reason, it goes beyond logic or rationale. Unlike animals people choose mates through more than just instinct. Financial, sensual or intellectual stimulus can be our motivation to mate. There are laws of physics at work! There are laws of attraction at work. There are laws of diversity at work. In physics; the opposite poles in magnets allows us to manipulate and share electricity. This is why batteries and most electrical connections are labeled positive and negative. In attraction; sight, smells and sounds stimulate senses that draw us to on another. This is why women should dress modestly in public for the sake of many visually stimulated men that may not have learned to discipline their eyes to the pleasures of sight. When God made mankind, we were made to see beauty in one another. This is also why "fair" women must even be more discreet in their dealings with the opposite sex. In Proverbs 11:22 it says "As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion." In diversity; it is important for maintaining a potent immune system but also minimizes inbreeding which can reduce a species' ability to survive and reproduce. Populations with low genetic diversity have increased vulnerabilities when it comes to evolving to their ever-changing environment. The "(sex) mating drive" in lower order species operate differently from the complex human "sex drive." While there are similarities nothing is quite the same. The main distinction is in the "DRIVE" behind the sex! When it comes to mating, animals first consider gender and strength as their priorities for procreation and survival. Only a higher order intellectual creatures like HUMAN beings can actually elect to bypass, override, ignore, pervert and corrupt their very own built in and hard wired instinct to procreate. The main purpose of our "sex drive" is sex! HUMAN beings however, can choose to alter and/or create their own personal style or type of "sexual expressions." There are no limits to the human imagination. We can elect to indulge in our urges, thoughts and fantasies as a substitute for reality. HUMAN beings are the only species that can re-purpose gender or redefine their "sex drive." This creative ability may contribute to explaining how the divergence to transgender status occurs. The desire to indulge in the "act" of sex is comparable to the compulsion, drive or sensations we experience for scratching an itch. The relief we get from scratching along with the pleasure we get from sexual intercourse can be considered the reward for addressing those urges willingly and properly. The desire/urge to indulge in sex is so strong that even under to worse conditions people engage in it. Regardless of being imprisoned, impoverished, hungry or homeless people still engage in sexual intercourse. Whether we indulge in these activities adequately or not the sensations feel the same, but the end results will differ. The "lure of sex" appears in many forms. When we mingle our sex drive with fantasy, we will be entangled in a fallacy. Unfortunately in the human economy beliefs backed by emotions have a tendency to override our common sense and better judgement. Our emotions have a "drive" of their own. learning how to channel our "sex drive" determines our participation in, perspectives from and the power of our sexual influence within relationships.
there's no mystery to the history of sex
Anyone familiar with the biblical account of creation knows the first commandment. We are not referring to the 10 commandments or the laws of Moses. The first commandment in the bible is to be fruitful and multiply. Procreation is such an important part of the Jewish tradition that any barren woman who failed to conceive believed she was cursed. Of course during those times we always blamed the woman for infertility. Abraham's wife Sarah, Ruth, Rebecca, Hannah and others are a classic examples of the stigma that accompanied any woman's failure to have children. During those days and times procreation through sexual intercourse was a mandatory practice. Abraham and Sarah apparently had passed their child bearing age. They were "BOTH" barren. Abraham may have been capable of an erection; but perhaps his sperm needed resurrection. Sarah and Abraham were probably still intimate, but perhaps Sarah's womb was in need of revival. As these stories go, It turned out that the weaknesses were in these women's wombs. God promised Abraham that his seed would become a great nation. That might have motivated them to continue having sexual intercourse as often as possible. We do know that it was quite late in their marriage and doubt set in. Abraham and Sarah resorted to using a slave as a proxy. Having sex with Sarah's maid/slave worked out. But later having sexual intercourse with Sarah was also successful. This caused the creation of two great nations! Many of the patriarchs in the bible including Abraham, Moses, King David and Solomon had multiple women and wives. The propagation of the family seed established status, inheritance and passed on the name. Solomon had about 700 wives and 300 concubines. Heterosexual copulation was the vital component of sexual intercourse for the blood line. Although sex was a popular practice, Heterosexual intercourse was more important for procreation. As HUMAN beings one of the most visibly palpable and powerful "expressions of love" in this realm of existence is sexual intercourse. The most sensual and erotic book in the bible is the "Song of Songs" or "Song of Solomon" as it is better known. This is easily the most provocative book also. The writings have all of the characteristics of an erotic poem, even if interpreted allegorically. The sultry expressions of attraction are more than hyperbole. It celebrates the overt sexual desires of two "lovers" through poetry. The poems depict sexual intercourse as something to be explored, enjoyed, relished and expressed through hymns and songs. This book has some resemblance to lyrics from some of the music we listen to today!
SEX "THE ACT" VERSUS INTERCOURSE "THE EXCHANGE"
Coitus or copulation is regarded as a traditional heterosexual act involving insertion. This type of activity is considered natural and normal. Multiplication is impossible without some form of copulation. The actions that define being "fruitful" differ in intent from the actions that allow us to physically "multiply." Every act, action or interaction among living things produces a by-product. Good or bad "the fruit" (result) of such, manifests physically and spiritually. The physical/visual aspect of integrating life's energies and combining forces is easily demonstrated. The hidden psychological and spiritual implications are not always that obvious. Procreation is such an innate instinct that it can operate outside of our willingness to properly exercise it. We were created to be fruitful by default and to multiply by design. The "first commandment" is more than a command it is a mandate that aligns with universal order! There is an addictive aspect to intimate relationships that is gratifying. This ingratiates those who participate in such activities to one another. Exchanging sexual expressions of thoughts, words or actions creates and maintains a mutual bonding effect. This, like any other consistent repetitive practice indicates a desire or need to indulge in it. Sometimes people who love sweets or are addicted to sugar, will continually consume them even if it compromises their health. Sexual intercourse outside of marriage has the same long term effects. Marriage allows its participants to legitimately develop an appetite for a variety of sexual stimulus. This is similar to how we develop appetites for certain foods. Every aspect of sex has a spiritual side. Acknowledging that words are spirit, images carry spirit and together transmit attitude and behavior gives us insight into sexual prowess. There are multiple dimensions to sexual intercourse and exchange. Our physical, spiritual and emotional senses are all entangled and involved in our sexuality. We generally can discern the presence of sexually oriented activity through observation. There is no gender when it comes to feelings of attraction, we express them through our thoughts, conversations and actions. Sometimes sensual/sexual desires are expressed through physical touching. When, where and how we make physical contact can indicate its intention. One basic rule we can apply is to know that the longer we touch or maintain contact with one another the more intimate the implication. Sometimes sensual/sexual desires are expressed through glances, looks or stares. Those of us that have an understanding of spiritual telepathy know that the vibrations within various environments lead to assimilation from association.
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SHORT SIGHTED TRADITIONS FAIL TO FULLY DEFINE THE PURPOSE OF THE SEX DRIVE
As HUMAN beings we are driven by appetites, desires, needs and wants. Above hunger, itching, pain, pleasure, smells and tastes; the "sex drive" cannot be denied. In nature the survival instincts of a species always trumps any other dominate traits. Animals have a sex, that is a trait or identity, but animals do not "have" what we consider, acts of sex. The main difference between the acts of HUMANS and animals mating is the consciousness in which it's done in. With animals the act of mating and the "drive" to mate is instinctual. When it comes to humans, intercourse/mating or sex is emotional, instinctual and intellectual. Our soul involves itself every sexual relationship we're in. Our soul is the seat of our consciousness and as such defines and regulates the emotions we feel. All emotions from the purest, which is love, to the most adulterated which is apathy, are managed by the soul. When the soul experiences sex, the soul interprets this act as characteristics of love. When the intimate acts our bodies engages in do not match the emotions that should go with them, our soul informs us that it is not love. When the feelings from our emotions deceive us they can obscure the truth that our soul tells us. The intelligence of love extends our emotional, instinctual and intellectual energy into the act of sexual intercourse. In the grand scheme of things sexual intercourse is designed to be an act of LOVE! The meaning of the word "sex" only recently expanded. Before the 20th century "sex" meant gender exclusively, but it appears that the steady progress of the sexual revolution changed that. Today, sex or sex-appeal is recognized through the powers of allure, attraction and seduction. Sexual seduction works through our emotional, physical, audible or visual senses. The desire for and feelings from sex are far more than explosions, the act is more than odd positions, the sounds are way beyond ooh's, aah's, moans or screams and the appearance of sex is not like a slow motion movie. These are some of the images being promoted to seduce us. The spirits that seduce us (using sex) always operate in an "insidious manner." Insidious is an adjective that describes a crafty but treacherous way of proceeding in a gradual manner that produces harmful results. To seduce sexually, is to use the "POWERS of attraction" for selfish intentions. Such IS the act of sex outside of its purpose and design. It's hard to imagine that we can voluntarily participate in any exhilarating and physically pleasurable acts that are invisibly harmful to our very soul. Contrary to popular religious and traditional teachings, sex is not exclusively for procreation. WE ARE CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO PROCLAIM "THAT IN THE HUMAN ECONOMY, SEX HAS PURPOSES THAT REACH OUTSIDE OF PROCREATION! The sex drive is arguably the strongest motivating force in the human economy. Sexual energies influence choices, decisions and preferences over a wide range of uses in everyday non romantic exchanges. Sex sells. Size, shape, patterns, functionality, colors and other factors involve both sexual preference and practical use. In a "Sexual society" such as ours, most anything and everything gets described as or is given a sexual identity. Planes, trains and automobiles are arbitrarily given both masculine and feminine names. These naming conventions indicate how we tend to identify objects in terms of gender. The impetus behind these practices suggest that gender, our sex trait, is the first criteria we take into consideration. Along with color, culture, nationality, race, religion or any other attribute, gender is always a top criteria. Sexual energy is one among the many spiritual forces we encounter day to day. Intellectual energies are found in abundance among our institutions of higher learning and the Physical energy of sports and recreation are held in high esteem. Although we can see the manifestations of energies we may not know the spiritual source behind the force. Gender is not an identity. Gender is a trait. We cannot choose our gender but we can choose how we associate and identify with others. Although our sex (trait) is considered our gender, gender has nothing to do with choosing a sexual identity. Our sexual orientation is to desire sex. We are all hard wired to find a mate. The innate desire and drive for an affectionate relationship that consummates in copulation comes without preference or partiality. Attraction is not determined by sexual orientation. Attraction is a natural magnet that spawns desires through interactions with others. We are attracted to individuals that appeal to our likes and senses. Understanding attractions is one of the challenges that comes along with grasping how sexual energy works. Knowing the level and the type of attraction our relationships are founded upon helps to establish commonly accepted standards. Attraction is an active force like gravity or magnetism. Attraction should be understood and properly harnessed before unleashing it. All that glitters is not gold and it's easy to be drawn away through our lust and enticed in the name of attraction. The common fly is easily attracted to both Venus fly traps and spider webs although they are different. Some feelings carry attractions that we long for even though they're not good for us. Yes, attraction has a down side too! Bending or breaking the "laws of attraction" is not smart thing to do. Being ignorant or unaware of how the law operates is no excuse. Attraction is a magnetic type of spiritual energy we share and express through. A brief lesson on magnetism lets us know that not only are magnets attracted to one another, magnets attract and can be attracted to any metallic substance. REMEMBER, just because a magnet is already attached or connected to something else doesn't mean that it can't draw or be drawn somewhere other than its present position. Magnetic forces are controllable. Acknowledging sexual status also creates safe environments. When we abuse the sexual "drive" or use sexual acts of intercourse to consummate, strictly for self satisfaction or manipulation, the beautiful spirit of sensual harmony through sexual stimulation is perverted.
BONDING ENERGIES HAVE POWERFUL EXPRESSIONS
Expressing sexuality "connects" us to spiritual flows and the noble purposes outside of fleshly fulfillment. Any physically consummated sex outside of wedlock abuses the fragility of our sexual "roles." The physical act of consummation has both biological and spiritual components. The significance of having intercourse cannot be overlooked. To be fruitful and multiply, first we must learn to be fruitful. Fertilization, pollination and other forms of sowing seeds are fruitful types of activities. The acts themselves do not guarantee new growth, but without planting seed the miracle of life cannot take place. Not only are children the result of fruitful multiplication; love and its many forms of expression multiply too. Whenever we joyfully commit to physically consummating our psychological, spiritual and emotional union physically; another root takes hold and another bough is strengthened. Copulation causes the creation and the formation of many immutably unique and invisible bonds. Marriage is more than two people and two bodies combining their energies and resources together. Marriage does spiritually what love and romance cannot do naturally. The ceremony of marriage is the commitment and consent to mystically knit two souls together in a joint bond that neither can break. The process of human sexual arousal gradually deactivates areas of the brain like the prefrontal cortex where rational behavior and self awareness rule. As these chemical changes take place, emotional and physical reactions also begin to occur. Sexual intercourse is like the entree of a multi-course meal. The whole experience, after all dishes are served is considered to be a full meal. Although some people favor one part of a meal over another, most of us eat the whole thing with room for dessert. Meals are bonding experiences. Not only can we bond with the food, we can also bond with one another over a meal. We release chemicals like oxytocin, known as the "bonding hormone" every time we Stimulate certain sensory nerves. Once this invisible bond emerges we have the power to develop and continually engage with it or abuse it. Whenever the "state of attraction," desire or lust spawns consummation, the process continues. Regardless of the commitment, the bond is meant to be permanent and when we neglect it, the fragments of that broken and/or perverted bond remains in some form for life. Sex exploits our nakedness. The more intimacy we achieve the more revealing the relationship must become. Any level of intimacy we attain with one another has a sexual component to it. Defining levels of intimacy even among blood siblings is an ongoing process. The standards we uphold must coincide with a child's changing physical and psychological sexual development. As both girls and boys mature their sex (gender)becomes more apparent to themselves and others as their sexual expressions are formed and defined. Distinctions are made, borders formed and lines are drawn as children mature. Every child should become aware of, trained and/or warned that these distinctions, borders and lines exists. Affection in and of itself is driven by a need to express and receive it. The signs of affection are almost the same as the signs of attraction. Each appeals to our emotional well being and leaves us with a good feeling. The feelings we get from, or have due to meaningful relationships release oxytocin into the bloodstream. This is the same hormone that's released during sexual intercourse, childbirth, and lactation to aid reproductive functions. By design oxytocin along with dopamine and serotonin cause us to feel better psychologically and inside our physical bodies, despite what's going on outside of them. Doesn't this imply that illicit sexual exposure and/or intercourse outside of a committed marriage can actually cloud our judgement? Sexual attractions differ from sexual lusts. Sex is a type of POWER. Indulging in sex as a connective link to energy; provides better sleep, lowers blood pressure, boosts the immune system and lowers stress. Sexual intercourse's intimacy presents the insecurity we feel in total nakedness as a liberating way back to our original created state. This condition can only exist within the institution of marriage, an intimately shared Holy union. Our emotional, intellectual and physical privacy is open and exposed whenever we are engaged in sexual intercourse. Not only are we required to reveal ourselves but we are also essentially opening up our internal and external naked vulnerabilities to be scrutinized by our life long partner. Our Sexuality allows us to selectively exchange the type of energy we are comfortable and compatible with. No one knows who's swimming naked until the tide goes out. In like manner no one know our sexual strength, preference or status until we show or state it.
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SEXUALITY IS MORE THAN A CAPACITY OF... IT IS A POWER TO...
Sexuality, the capacity for sexual feelings is an intrinsic and intimate part of every human's lifestyle. HUMAN SEXUALITY IS OUR STRONGEST INSTINCT. This is a part of the human condition that must be acknowledged. Sexuality appeals, sexuality beckons, sexuality drives, sexuality encourages, sexuality incentivises, sexuality lulls, sexuality mesmerizes, sexuality soothes, sexuality comforts, sexuality calms and sexuality stimulates and sexual urges. Sexuality is not an act. Sexuality is a role. Sexuality is a fluid state of energy we operate through. Our sexuality can take advantage of every feeling or emotion we've ever experienced. Our sexuality has the capacity to re-purpose feelings for our own personal expression. Feelings can be deceptive. We can go through the "exact" same situation and feel differently about it each time. Feelings change that's why it's not wise to trust them. There are feelings that mimic other feelings but are not the same. We tend to regard our emotions called feelings to highly. Sexual feelings like infatuation can lead us to misinterpret the desires and intentions of others. When Sexuality is expressed sensually though intimacy it is loaded with feelings. Feelings of Fondness, attachment, affection and attraction mesmerize us and can easily draw us towards one another; but so can primal lusts. Sexual Lusts, like any other lust feel like intense cravings. Under normal conditions we cannot develop cravings for things we have not experienced, seen or tasted. Many of the desires we have are acquired by experience. Craving ice cream without having ever tasted ice cream is a contradiction. However, our Sexual expressions are an exception! The sex drive is a built-in mechanism we must keep in check. The sex drive promotes feelings that arouse sensual types of behaviors but does not control them. Our sex drive works like an appetite. We do not have to learn how to eat. That behavior is autonomously driven by our appetite but can be exploited by a "spirit of gluttony." BEHAVIORS ARE NOT SPIRIT! BEHAVIORS ARE WHAT SPIRITS EXPLOIT. EXPLOITING BEHAVIORS IS ONE WAY SPIRITS MANIFEST THEMSELVES IN THE PHYSICAL REALM. Our sexuality is both what we share and what we are. It can be considered a component of our nakedness. Nakedness and sexuality share similar qualities. When we're naked and exposed we no longer have the ability or power to hide or selectively conceal any of our physical attributes. We have no choice but to bare and share what we previously considered to be personal and absolutely private. This is one of the ways we bare our souls. In reality, our nakedness actually informs us that we can interact with our physical bodies and appearance as much as we do with our words and conversations. This may be why Adam and Eve hid themselves from the "presence" of God! Clothing, fashion and adornments represent a significant part of our personality whether we acknowledge it or not. Everyone has their own individual style even if they copied it from someone else. Nakedness exposes the things we are not proud of, or even ashamed of. The blemishes, marks and scars once concealed by clothes are obvious when we bare it all. Sexual intercourse also reveals all of our physical and emotional disguises. This opens the door for love's "unconditional acceptance." We come to love not by finding perfection in a person, but by learning to see and accept that person perfectly. Love has no prerequisites and can use sex to express itself. Love can stand alone on its own merits, but many behaviors can also complement it. Sexual intercourse has stipulations, and each unfulfilled condition lessens the quality of its capacity. This manifests even more so when it is not centered around love. Sex without love can still be gratifying, but never to the full extent of its many expressions. Engaging in Sexual intercourse is a physically "shared" experience. Today's technologies are being used to exploit our sexual nature. Pornography, disguised as phone sex has now evolved into cybersex. Cybersex can extend the visual and emotional aspect of intimacy on to a digital platform but there is no substitute for the tactile aspect of sex as of yet. The metaverse, robots and virtual reality are quickly being integrated into our personal lives. Programmable Virtual sex and new tactile peripherals are being developed constantly. Selling sex is nothing new; the packaging is changing, but the perversion remains. Although sex is no longer respected as it was in times past and its value has diminished, its popularity has increased. Our libido is being challenged. Too many expressions of sexuality are being convoluted, cheapened and corrupted. Sexual intercourse is an ongoing process full of activities that goes far beyond the acts executed in the bedroom. In the school of "Intercourse" we attend class, have assignments (roles), give homework (practice), and study. We learn on the job through "hands on" performances. The "course" of our sexual journey, the intercourse, like many other paths and routes has multiple twists and turns. Sexual intercourse can easily be the culmination of previously expressed promenades of sexually expressed actions and activities. Intimacy does not necessarily require privacy. The more we expand our perspectives, the easier it will be to perceive the numerous intimate "acts of sex" being practice openly in public places. Couples that keep their intercourse on course never stop the saunter. Many onlookers are unaware of what they're observing. Intimate acts throughout the course of any day are often shared in a sacred and/or secret manner between couples. Looks, pinches, touches, winks and kisses communicate and send secret sensitive messages without others knowing. Deeply intimate couples can sometimes feel or sense the presence of their partner without talking to or touching on one another. The dating never stops; it transforms quotidian routines into everyday rituals. To fully appreciate the significance that sexual intercourse plays in our lives we must be aware of its full range of aspects and applications.
SEX MUST BE PROPERLY CLASSIFIED TO BE CORRECTLY IDENTIFIED!
Think of sex as an acronym that stands for a Signified Expressions of EXchange. Sex is how we were born and how we express from the depth of our souls. Sex is like a bullet in a gun. Sex needs a body, form or object of expression. Sex as an agent can be used to convey or influence circumstances. Sex becomes an illusion when we feel or think that it has any POWER of its own. Sex comes with strings. There is no such thing as a "no strings attached" relationship of any kind. The idea of "unconditional love" is a fallacy. Love has conditions. Whenever conversation, emotions, favors, friendship, money or pleasure is exchanged strings are connected, tied and sometimes knotted permanently. Sex is no exception. Sex has a role to play. The roles, defined by nature, are immutable; but how we apply them are not. The creative evolving characteristics of HUMANITY contain the ability to intentionally rewrite the script. Sex requires sharing! Private self gratification through masturbation can not be considered as sexual intercourse. Without the sharing there is no intercourse! While acts such as these imitate real life situations and simulate real life like feelings, they do not yield real life results. In theory our psycho-sexual development has five basic stages. Freud proposed that personality development in childhood takes place during these five stages. The stages are called oral, anal, phallic, latency, and genital. During each stage sexual energy (libido) is expressed in different ways and through different parts of the body. There are a number of biological, chemical, emotional, hormonal, physical and spiritual interactions involved and exchanged during sexual intercourse. Hormones affect much more than just our sex drive. It is the secretion of a few molecules from a handful of glands that are responsible for reeving up our libido. Sexual intercourse operates physically at a corporeal level emotionally at a physiological level and spontaneously at a spiritual level though various senses. Yes, sex is sensual! Let's explore the act of sexual intercourse. There are no other acts or actions in the physical realm we can perform or engage in comparable to sex. When we engage in sexual intercourse we're able to align all of our human senses in a way that has the potential to produce the most rewarding sensual pleasures known to mankind. There is no rival to sexual pleasure. There is no drug, liquor or other experience exhilarating or fulfilling as sexual intercourse practiced within the confines of a committed marriage. The exhilaration experienced by our senses even as a teenager or young adult falling in love is a precursor to the fulfillment that comes with the act of consummation. A sense is a part of a biological system that an organism uses for sensation. Our senses operate through the process of gathering information about the world through the detection of stimuli. There are more than five senses. Sexual intercourse takes advantage of the senses we have and integrates them in a manner that encourages and enhances the act. This yields pleasurable results consistent with procreation. Would we be mindful enough to commit to consistent sexual intercourse without the urging of our sex drive? Keep in mind that pleasure is not the purpose of sexual intercourse, pleasure is one of the "side" effects of intercourse. The full course of sexual involvements center around sensual and psychological stimulus. The sensual characteristics involve seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting, touching/feeling and others like spacial orientation. Our sensory organs including the skin, ears, eyes, nose and tongue, contribute to the pleasurable feelings sexual intercourse produces. As sexual sensitivity awakens awareness increases. When our physical human senses align with our emotional psychological feelings and are shared through the ritual of committed sexual consummation, intimacy reaches a level that can only be achieved sexually. Sexual intercourse rewards the senses and the "soul" from the spirit in which it is practiced. Today we have a four phase sexual response cycle; this physiological response model formulated by Masters and Johnson analyses each stage of sexual stimulation. The acronym, E.P.O.R. stands for excitement, plateau, orgasm and recovery. Our eyes, known as the light of the body, can stimulate excitement on sight. Visually appealing colors, patterns and things like flowers, birds, puppies, kittens and babies have a profound effect on us. We may not be aware of if, but we create chemical bonds with endearing objects or people we are fond of and affectionate towards. Our bodies can activate hormones through stimulation from any of our physical senses. Stimulus can come from our eyes (sights), our nose (smells), our ears (sounds), our tongue (tastes) and from touching or being touched (feel/tactile). No wonder certain smells make us hungry and certain sounds comfort and soothe us. This is why certain textures feel so smooth. What's alluring is also assuring. What's exciting is also inviting. What Stimulates us can inundate us. What turns us on can lead us on. Sexual intercourse is about a shared symphony of stimulating sensations. Sexual intercourse can be used as an ongoing "course" of consistent and continuous actions practiced by two individuals to consolidate their energies together for a lifetime. Sexual intercourse allows each participants individually felt desires and feelings to be expressed through acts of affection without the fear of rejection. Sexual intercourse allows us to freely and harmoniously express ourselves spontaneously. Taking the separate experiences of two individuals stimulated senses and combining them into a collective crescendo of pleasurable physical and emotional gratification is the reward of continually practicing the act of consummation in a committed marriage. IMAGINE THE SATISFACTION OF INDULGING IN OUR FAVORITE DESSERT WHILE BASKING IN THE WARMTH OF THE SUN AND SIMULTANEOUSLY GETTING A MASSAGE. CONSIDER ALL THIS OCCURRING WHILE LISTENING TO THE SOFT SOOTHING MUSIC OF A LIVE BAND AND SAVORING THE AROMA OF A MEAL WITH THE SCENT OF THE "SWEET SMELL OF SUCCESS." That's the power of Sexual intercourse. Our sexual expressions demonstrate the POWER of our sexuality and convey how its working in our lives. Our sexual expressions are no fantasy. Societies preoccupation with sex is demonstrated from how we deal with erectile dysfunction to the way it's depicted in the media. Is the growing problem of erectile dysfunction associated with today's moral standards? If our sex drive is not functioning properly, we should address it. Our sex drive should be more than enough to keep us interested. Do we really need any help drawing attention to a naturally driven desire to copulate? Animals successfully mate without any encouragement. Why is it mostly men that seem to be preoccupied with virility? Are drugs like Viagra, Levitra and Cialis enabling dependence or performance?. Yes, women do experience issues too. Sex slows down after menopause, they may experience a decreased libido, difficulty with lubrication, pain with penetration and difficulty with or inability to climax. However, for the majority of women sexuality does change with age but doesn't disappear. When we're young it seems the only thing that saves us from "what" stimulates us, is our "free moral agency" and personal will power. Other then that we would constantly succumb to being "under the influence" of hormones. These chemicals called hormones have similar addictive effects as drugs and alcohol. Hormones, however never leave us with hangovers or overdoses.
BURYING OUR PETS: WHY COUPLES SHOULD NEVER ALLOW PETTING TO DIE.
The "joy of sex" is more then an expression. It's like a college course, intercourse, that must be taken, graded and passed again and again. It is an affirmation that sex is meant to be enjoyed. We love doing things we enjoy, like eating, shopping, sports, entertainment and recreation. As quiet as it is kept, sex is at the top of the list and second place is so distant that there's no competition. Most "everybody" engages in sex, but not everyone is into sports. When it comes to sex we're willing to do right for it, fight for it, stalk for it, talk for it, lie for it, wrong for it, die for it, be irked by it and still work for it. Sex is a great motivator! We gain a greater appreciation for things that we struggle with and work for. Sex is no exception. Sex in its all inclusive definition is a Significant Expression of Exchange. Anyone can mimic the mechanics of mating and "do sex.," but only human beings can "have sex." The innate urge to procreate is there to encourage the "act of consummation." To "have sex" means to give and receive the gift of surrendering bodily, emotional and ethical privacy in exchange for an intimate relationship with someone else. Sexual intercourse practiced legally carries all of LOVE'S characteristics and can cast out all inhibitions and fears. We can establish a physic "no judgement zone" through sexual relationships that "merge" our imperfections into mutual compatible bonds. Relationships require work and maintenance. Sexual intercourse is a part of that work that requires attention too. If we do not maintain the ritual of consummation regularly along with its accompanying practices they may become unnecessarily dormant. Many people just "have sex" without savoring each "course" or process with attention to planning, appreciating or giving much thought to it. Although "doing sex" is as easy as any activity we'll ever perform, sexual intercourse has more personal meaning and greater social significance than any other societal practice. Let's not just talk about sex. Let's also talk about how we verbalize throughout the acts of intercourse. So many couples are missing out and go through their lifetime without ever practicing or perfecting the dialogue of sex. Yes, part of the course is talking, and to score par for the course, there must be conversation too! Appreciation is as easy as an "I LOVE YOU." Sex and the benefits derived from our sex drive are enormous. Too many couples that have been together for long lengths of time loose the "SEX-APPEAL in their marriage due to neglecting it. Although we experience physical changes as we age, psychological changes do not necessarily follow. This may be why some of us turn into dirty old men, manther's and cougars. People who find themselves battling against "spirits of sexual lust" have probably embraced a false narrative or are buying into a perverted idea of sex. The desire to copulate is a natural urge. Asking or praying that God destroy our sex drive is juxtaposed to the purpose of its creation. Our sex drives are a "badge of honor" to be heralded and distinguished as both a potential present and future treasure. The power of the sex drive and its value would never be wasted casually if we understood its true significance. This is a call to redefine sex education. If the premise is embraced incorrectly the end results will suffer. This is one reason many couples fall short of their full sexual potential. Today's preoccupation with erectile dysfunction, orgasms and other sexual sensations narrows the definition of what sexual intercourse is. The separation of our acts of sex from acts of love further dilutes what sex is actually all about. Sharing our bodies, fluids, DNA, nakedness, scars, secrets and insecurities without fear or judgement, along with the bonds of intimacy and the legal authority to freely engage in the pleasures of sex unconditionally is a blessing. The sex drive is one spirit that we want to control but we don't want to quench. The bonding hormone, oxytocin is so durable and resilient that even without repeated consummation for years the bond can remain strong. Married couples that are in committed relationships should never stop taking advantage of the power that sexual intercourse can continually inject into their relationship. The pornography industry has nothing on marriage and can never compete with real expressions of sensuality in the bedroom or any place else. There are no sexual positions, techniques or tricks better than combining the energy of some or all of our multiple senses. Sexual intercourse is and should only be expressed as an extension of love. Of course, just as true love can be faked, true sex can be faked as well. Fake sex employs many of acts of true sex but without the commitment love brings into the process of consummation. No fantasy can top the intimacy of sex. Copulation alone is "doing sex." Sharing in the exchange and the surrender of intimacy through exposing vulnerabilities and making life long commitments is a more difficult but ultimately rewarding course; its sexual intercourse. The best thing we can wear for safe sex is a wedding ring. Our bodies change but our feelings shouldn't. The acts of kissing, petting, teasing and touching should never end. As a matter of fact they should be increased and adjusted to accommodate the growing affection and appreciation couples show towards one another. The acts can be discrete or obvious and should have no limitations in their expression, whether we find ourselves in a boardroom or bedroom. Our "pets" deserve our attention and without nurturing them, they suffer. Stroking that "cat" that rubs against us is no crime. The type of affection and petting we began with during "puppy love" uses the same expressions that should never be "dog gone." THE MAIN DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SEX AND LOVE IS THAT SEX REQUIRES LOVE TO BE TRUE BUT LOVE IS TRUE ON ITS OWN!
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